Obituary Wording Examples

Choosing the right words for an obituary can be challenging. These obituary wording examples provide appropriate phrases, expressions, and language for different situations—from traditional and formal to modern and personal. Use these examples as templates to craft your own meaningful tribute.

Opening Phrases

Traditional/Formal:

  • "[Name], [age], of [location], passed away peacefully on [date]..."
  • "[Name], beloved [relationship], passed away on [date]..."
  • "It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of [Name]..."
  • "[Name] entered into eternal rest on [date]..."
  • "[Name] departed this life on [date]..."

Modern/Personal:

  • "[Name] left this world on [date]..."
  • "We are heartbroken to share that [Name] passed away on [date]..."
  • "[Name] passed away peacefully on [date], surrounded by loved ones..."
  • "[Name] died on [date] after a [brief/long] illness..."
  • "[Name] passed away unexpectedly on [date]..."

Describing Character and Qualities

Positive Qualities:

  • "[Name] was known for [his/her] kindness, generosity, and unwavering love for [his/her] family."
  • "[Name] will be remembered for [his/her] sense of humor, [his/her] compassion, and [his/her] dedication to helping others."
  • "[Name] was a devoted [relationship], a loyal friend, and a pillar of [his/her] community."
  • "[Name] touched the lives of everyone [he/she] met with [his/her] warmth, wisdom, and gentle spirit."
  • "[Name] lived [his/her] life with grace, dignity, and an unwavering faith."

Professional/Career:

  • "[Name] dedicated [X] years to [career/profession], where [he/she] made a lasting impact on [his/her] colleagues and community."
  • "[Name] was a respected [profession] who was known for [his/her] expertise, integrity, and commitment to excellence."
  • "[Name] retired from [company/organization] after [X] years of dedicated service."

Family Relationship Phrases

Survived By:

  • "[Name] is survived by [his/her] [relationship] of [X] years, [Spouse Name]..."
  • "[Name] is survived by [his/her] loving [relationship], [Name]..."
  • "[Name] leaves behind [his/her] [relationship], [Name], and [his/her] [children/grandchildren]..."
  • "[Name] is survived by [his/her] children, [Names], and [his/her] [X] grandchildren..."
  • "[Name] is survived by [his/her] [relationship], [Name]; [his/her] [children/siblings], [Names]; and numerous [nieces/nephews/friends]."

Preceded in Death By:

  • "[Name] was preceded in death by [his/her] [relationship], [Name]..."
  • "[Name] was preceded in death by [his/her] parents, [Names], and [his/her] [sibling/spouse], [Name]."
  • "[Name] joins [his/her] beloved [relationship], [Name], who passed away in [year]."

Service Information Phrases

Funeral Service:

  • "A funeral service will be held on [date] at [time] at [location]."
  • "Funeral services will be held on [date] at [time] at [location], with interment to follow at [cemetery]."
  • "A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on [date] at [time] at [church]."
  • "A celebration of [Name]'s life will be held on [date] at [time] at [location]."

Visitation/Wake:

  • "Visitation will be held on [date] from [time] to [time] at [location]."
  • "Family will receive friends on [date] from [time] to [time] at [location]."
  • "A wake will be held on [date] from [time] to [time] at [location]."

Private Service:

  • "A private family service will be held in [Name]'s honor."
  • "Services will be private, per the family's wishes."
  • "A private memorial service will be held at a later date."

Memorial Donation Phrases

Standard Donation Requests:

  • "In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to [charity/organization] in [Name]'s memory."
  • "The family requests that memorial donations be made to [charity/organization]."
  • "In [Name]'s honor, donations may be made to [charity/organization]."
  • "Memorial contributions may be made to [charity/organization], a cause that was dear to [Name]'s heart."

Flowers Allowed:

  • "Flowers are welcome, or donations may be made to [charity/organization]."
  • "The family welcomes flowers, or memorial donations may be made to [charity/organization]."

Closing Phrases

Traditional:

  • "[Name]'s memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew [him/her]."
  • "[Name] will be deeply missed by [his/her] family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing [him/her]."
  • "May [Name] rest in peace."
  • "[Name]'s legacy of love and kindness will continue to inspire all who knew [him/her]."

Personal/Touching:

  • "[Name], you will be forever in our hearts. We love you and will miss you always."
  • "[Name]'s laughter, [his/her] love, and [his/her] spirit will be with us always."
  • "We are grateful for the time we had with [Name] and will carry [his/her] memory with us forever."
  • "[Name] touched so many lives, and [his/her] impact will be felt for generations to come."

Gratitude:

  • "The family wishes to express their gratitude to [caregivers/hospice/staff] for their compassionate care."
  • "The family extends their heartfelt thanks to all who provided care and support during [Name]'s final days."

Special Circumstances

Unexpected Death:

  • "[Name] passed away unexpectedly on [date]..."
  • "[Name] died suddenly on [date]..."
  • "We are shocked and saddened to announce the sudden passing of [Name]..."

After Long Illness:

  • "[Name] passed away peacefully on [date] after a courageous battle with [illness]..."
  • "[Name] died on [date] after a long illness, surrounded by [his/her] loving family."
  • "After a valiant fight against [illness], [Name] passed away on [date]..."

Young Person/Child:

  • "[Name], our precious [child/son/daughter], passed away on [date]..."
  • "[Name], [age], passed away on [date] after a brief illness..."
  • "We are heartbroken to announce the passing of our beloved [Name]..."

Tips for Choosing Obituary Wording

  • Match the tone: Use formal language for traditional obituaries, personal language for modern ones.
  • Be respectful: Always maintain dignity and respect, even in difficult circumstances.
  • Be specific: Use concrete details rather than generic phrases when possible.
  • Consider your audience: Think about who will read the obituary and choose appropriate language.
  • Keep it authentic: Use words that reflect the person's true personality and life.
  • Proofread carefully: Check spelling, grammar, and accuracy of all information.
Learn How to Write an Obituary